photo by Matteo De Tomasi – www.matteodetomasi.it „
The 3 of May is a national holiday in Poland. It is a celebration of the anniversary of the proclamation of the constitution in 1791. It was the first constitution in Europe, the second one in the world – after the American. The idea of the constitution was to reconstruct and strength the state by introducing democratical way of governing the Polish-Lithuanian Commonwealth and give more rights to the citizens, and develop special program to protect peasants.
Unfortunately the reformates’ could enjoy the victim of the constitution over the conservative groups only for 14 months. Under the pretext of defense the previous system and support the conservative opposition, Poland was attacked by a Russian Army in 1792. A desperate struggle to defend the constitution has failed. Poland fell under the rule of three neighboring countries (Prussia, Austria and Russia) despite of the Kościuszko insurrection (1794). Eventually Poland lost independents for over 100 years. However the spirit of the ideas of the constitution , the memory of the insurrection, a strong desire for freedom has never disappeared and after several uprisings and military activities during the First World War Poland regain its independence in 1918.
photo by Matteo De Tomasi – www.matteodetomasi.it „
The May 3 was celebrated officially on 1972. Later on it was banned by the occupants, but unofficial celebration has been continued to keep alive Polish aspirations for freedom. It was again made an official Polish holiday in April 1919 under the Second Polish Republic. During the communist time it was removed from the list of national holidays and in 1990, after the fail of the regime, the 3 May was restored again and became the most important civil holiday. For Poles the celebration of the May 3 Constitution is considered as a symbol of the best tradition of the history of the state and Polish culture.
B – bocian ‘stork’
photo by Magda Maliborska
Is a symbol of a spring, good luck and prosperity for the cottage the bird make their nest on. That is why it was considered a serious singe to spoil the nest or make a harm to a stork.
The birds are leaving Poland for the winter period and come back with the spring to the same place. If it happened that the stork is sick and cannot join the flock to take the journey over the ocean, the “hosts” take care of it during the winter.
Each year they are expected by the villagers and mostly welcome. People often install a wheel on the roof of the barn to encourage the stork to build a nest. In some regions there is a tradition to bake a special cookies (like a stork’s foot) to bring them back, in case of delay of their arrival. It is also a magical practice to bring the spring.
phot. Magda Modlibowska
A – alphabet
In contrary to the most Slavic languages (East and South), Poland use the Latin alphabet – introduced together with Christianity in 966, when Polish prince Mieszko got married with a Czech princesses Dąbrawa.
Receiving Christianity from the Czech Kingdom Poland has been included to the Western Christian Church, while most of the Slaves belong to the Byzantium circle.
The Roman Church and the Latin alphabet was the door to the written heritage of the West European Culture. As Latin alphabet wasn’t sufficient to illustrate Polish phonetics, the diacritical signs has been introduced, like ą, ę (the nasal vowels) or a letter combination (such as: sz, cz, dź, dż, ch, like English sh, ch, th). Foreigners often complain about it, but the rules of using them are very regular, so it is easy to learn it, and it is very helpful to know the pronunciation.
Despite of belonging to the Roman circle, Poland hasn’t lost the contacts with the rest of the Slavic world. Especially the folk culture preserves the pre-Christian Slavic heredity. The echo of the ancient believes is still reflected in the traditional folk rituals and magical practices.
I will be pleased to present you some disappearing remains of the old believes, symbols and behavior as an alphabet of Polish thoughts. If you are interested, follow the blog. You are welcome to comment!
Every foreigner living or working abroad is exposed to cultural shock. Whether it will be a really painful experience, fun or just confusion depends on the individual’s ability to adapt to the new environment.
Do you think you have ever been touched by the effects of cultural shock?
Whenever you think that the local community is strange or is behaving in a weird way, it is a classical symptom of experiencing cultural difference, which in effect could lead towards a real shock. It is an alarm bell proclaiming that you are different.
If an Englishman who is living abroad tried to drive on the left side of the road as is the custom in his country, it would be a disaster and no doubt lead to a serious accident.
A cultural system like a language is a social product and is assimilated from our environment while we are growing up. It means that our lifestyle, our way of thinking, our value system, our communication strategy are assimilated as our natural codes from living in society. Usually, we are not even aware of it although it is the foundation of our identity.
Only the confrontation with a different social or ethnic group makes us conscious of the differences. It is natural that behavior different from our rules is considered strange. While it is strange for us, it is equally strange for the other side. While living among foreigners, we have the opportunity to conceptualize the differences and compare them with our system. Awareness of the differences is the first step of adaptation. The next one is to learn and understand the new system. The final step is to adopt it and to follow it up.
If you have problems with team building in Poland or with developing proper relationships with your Polish staff or colleagues, I will be pleased to help. However, in order to discuss the problem, I will need some information from you about your negative experiences. What caused the difficulties in communication? What kind of situation made you confused? What do you find most irritating in the behavior of Polish people? If you would like to share your experiences, I will try to explain the differences in the comments on my blog.
A kiss is primarily an expression of love, but also reverence, submission, respect and well wishes. It is the oldest way of communication, body language, overgrown rich symbolism. Kiss in Polish ‘całować’ is semantically associated with whole ‘cały’. This means not only the unity but also survival pol. ‘ocalić’ .
The kiss, which farewell a knight or a hunter, was kind wishes and blessings ‘come back untouched ‘cały’. It was exchanged both by men and men and woman and men and has nothing to do with sexuality.
Sex free was also the kiss of respect. Kissing pop’s or bishop ring was the singe of reverence given to God. Kissing the national flag, sword blades, the Constitution belong to the gestures to show reverence to symbols.
In some countries it was also a gesture of courtesy – like in Poland kissing lady’s hand in greeting and farewell. The custom is getting old fashion, but you can meet it even between young people.
The way of communication by a kiss is as old as mankind. It has been developing its meaning – direct and symbolic – with a culture of each language.Whatever it symbolize, the fundamental meaning of this gesture is expressing love with a strong sexual character and that is why it is still celebrated as an international holiday. Why there are two different dates? It really doesn’t matter. Let’s kiss in the end and in the middle of the year!
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The Mystery of Christmas Eve in Poland
‘Silent night, Holy night,
All is calm, All is bright…”
The night of 24th to 25th December was celebrated long before Christ in all civilisations of the solar cult. The mystery of the night consists of elements of ancient agricultural rituals, All Souls Day celebrations, and Christian religion practices.
Christmas Eve night, in Polish Wigilia, opens a new period in nature, coming as it does around the winter solstice, and announces the birth of the ‘sun’ in the Christian religion – the son of justice, the Son of God, Jesus Christ.
In Poland Wigilia is celebrated especially solemnly. The mystery of the night appears in all aspects: time, place, food and people’s behaviour.
The signal to start the Wigilia supper is not dictated by the clock, but rather by the appearance of the first star in the sky, which reminds us of the comet that appeared over Bethlehem to announce the birth of Christ and guide the shepherds and the three kings to the stable.
The celebration takes place at home, where all the members of the family meet for the Wigilia supper. The ceremony starts with the opłatek, a thin white wafer, the symbol of the holy bread. Each member of the family – and guests, of course – takes a wafer, and they offer it to each other one by one, each breaking off a small piece and exchanging special best wishes for the coming year. The breaking of the symbolic bread is meant to bring peace to the whole house and provide the family with enough bread for the coming year to share with others. The wafer is even given to pets and animals at the farms, as they were present at Christ’s birth. There is an old belief that animals are able to speak at midnight.
After the opłatek, the solemn supper begins. This supper is unique. Firstly, it is meatless (a tradition connected with the ancient celebration of All Souls Day). Next, the menu is very specific. It must consist of something from the garden (vegetable salads and a special dessert from poppy seeds); from the field (potatoes, grain i.e. bread); from the orchard (fruit, nuts); from the forest (mushrooms, honey, cranberries); and something from the water (fish, especially carp and herring). There are thirteen traditional dishes on the table, as there were twelve apostles and Christ.
The table is covered with a white tablecloth under which is put some hay to remind us that Christ was born in the stable in poverty. There must always be one spare place at the table for an unexpected guest, a custom connected with the old belief that the souls of the dead members of the family might visit home that evening.
The traditional menu varies according to the region and family customs, but usually for starters there is herring prepared in several ways, a vegetable salad and cold fish. Then soup is served – mushroom soup or red barszcz (borscht) with traditional uszka (small, baked pierogi with mushroom stuffing). For the second course there is usually fried or baked fish prepared in several ways: with a wine sauce, vegetables, herbs, mushrooms, and so on, and served with potatoes and a dish of cabbage with mushrooms, or in some regions simply many kinds of pierogi.
There are two traditional Christmas cakes: makowiec, a strudel with poppy seeds, and piernik, a cake made from honey with spices, cinnamon and ginger. There is also a dessert made out of ground poppy seeds with fresh cream, eggs, honey, raisins and almonds served with cookies. There should be also a cranberry kisiel (a kind of jelly) and compote made from sun-dried fruits such as plums, pears (and sometimes with figs).
Although the Christmas Eve supper is meatless it must be very rich. The abundance of food on the table should bring the family prosperity for the coming year. The dishes made from poppy seeds, especially, symbolise plenty, bringing abundance and wealth.
After the dessert there is time for singing carols and receiving Christmas presents. If there are children at the family they await the arrival of Święta Mikołaj (St Nicolas or Father Christmas) bearing presents. If there are no children the presents are put under the Christmas tree.
The Christmas tree decorations are powerfully symbolic. The lights bring God’s blessing on the house. The bright and colourful glass balls are to protect the house against evil, and bring joy and happiness. The colourful chains are for strengthening family relations. The pierniki cookie decorations provide abundance, while apples bring health and beauty to the girls and women of the family. If you eat a nut from the Christmas tree, it has the magical power of bringing love to you.
The ceremonial Wigilia supper, the Christmas tree lights and the carol singing together create the very special joyful climate of the holy night. The ceremony lasts till midnight when the whole family goes to church to Christmas Mass.
The next two days of Christmas are also very special but don’t have this unique and magic charm of the Polish Christmas Eve.
What is your Christmas ?
Christmas in Poland
Stereotypes are the social product. In spite of being „politicly incorrect”, they exist and mirrors all hidden emotions and attitudes towards others. Also they discover how the „others” are evaluated. The comparison between ‚selfportrait’ and the pictures of the other nations is very instructive. The diversity is based on the point of view and perspective.The mentality of the social group creating the stereotypes is expressed by the language in many ways: in common opinion, jokes, nicknames, etc. The way we talk about other nations says a lot about us.
Have a look at the mapping stereotypes by alphadesigner. Were you surprised by he way your country was viewed by the others? I think the author has fantastic sense of humour.
Personal art project by visual artist, graphic designer and illustrator Yanko Tsvetkov
“ The St Andrew Day –
Young girls hope and pray…”
29/30 November in Poland is the day of mysterious parties with the candles and future telling games, called Andrzejki (St Andrew Day)– the same as in the very past, but nowadays treated as a fun.
There are hundreds of ideas of how to find out about the future, namely the marriage, lucky or unlucky love and prosperous or poor perspectives. The most popular practices are wax pouring and shoe competition.
The most spectacular is pouring liquid wax into water. The shape which formed as the wax solidified is then illuminated to throw its shadow on the wall. The shape of the shadow gives the opportunity for unlimited interpretation, which is fun for all participants.
The shoe competition is reserved for the girls only. All of them took off their left shoes and put them in a line one after the other. Then this line of shoes “walk” to the door, the last moving to the front on by one, thus walking forward. The girl who’s shoe reach the door first would be the first to get married.
Isn’t it a contradiction St Andrew’s Day and telling the future?
What Saint Andrew has to do with all the magical practices well known by young girls in all regions in Poland and in Central and West Europe like Germany, Slovakia, Czech, Russia, Ukraine, Byelorussia, Hungary, Rumania, Lithuania and even in Greece. Why this particular day gives young girls the opportunity to discover the name of their future husbands, their chance for marriage in the near future, and all possible matrimonial details.
The ancient roots of the tradition
The worldwide extend of the custom proves its ancient provenance. Its roots go much deeper then Christianity back to pagan times when the time of the changing of the seasons was looked upon as particularly powerful, presenting the chance of special contact between the real and the spiritual worlds. It is significant that during this period as autumn starts to move into winter, All Souls Day is celebrated. People believed in special contact with the “other world” at this particular time.
When autumn moves into winter…
The spiritual character of this period was appreciated by the Christianity and St Andrew’s Day coincides with the start of Advent in the Catholic Church. Advent, lasting until Christmas, is the time of reflection, and prayer to develop spiritual contact with God.
St Andrew’s Eve was traditionally the last day when dancing parties were permitted and so it became the ideal time for telling the future. Naturally, St Andrew became a patron of young girls as a confidant of their hopes and prayer for getting married. The tradition of Andrzejki fortune telling was noted in the 16th century and is still known and practised in all regions in Poland., although nowadays the ceremony has lost a lot of it’s a magical and serious character and has been transformed into fun and games during St Andrew parties arranged by young people.
Ways of forecasting marriage
There were several ways of forecasting marriage, depending on the region, the invention of the participants – and the faith in its power. The most popular methods were those based on interpretation of the magical signs, which could predict husband’s name, age, appearance, profession, the direction he is supposed to come from, the power of his love, and fortunate or unhappy marriage, and so on.
One of the way of discovering the future husband was to interpret the girl’s dream from the night preceding the St Andrew’s Day. After the intensive praying to St Andrew, they expected to be shown their future husband during the night dream. The man they could see during the dream was the one they would soon merry.
Wax into water
The favourite way of future telling was for a group of girls to pour liquid wax into water. The shape of the solidified wax would tell what the future husband would look like, what would be his profession, and so on…
Who is the first to get married?
During the girl’s St Andrew’s Eve gathering they wanted to know for whom the church bells would ring first. The answer was the result of the shoe competition. The owner of the shoe which reached the door first would be the lucky one - the first to leave the house i.e. to get married.
From which direction will he arrive?
To know from which direction the boy would arrive, the girls would leave the house for a wile to listen to dogs barking. From the direction the dog was barking, the boyfriend was expected to arrive.
What is his name?
Before getting to bed the girls would put pieces of papers with the men’s name on under their pillow. In the morning the first piece taken out of the pillow was the name of the future husband. There were hundreds of ideas of how to find out about the marriage. Many of these disappeared or had only a local character.
St Catherine׳s Day for bachelor׳s – St Andrew’s for girls
In the past, the only participants of the St Andrew’s Eve could be young girls, usually of a similar age. Married woman and men were not accepted. There was another day for bachelors, 24 November, the night preceding St Catherine’s Day, one week before St Andrews Day on 29 November.
Although the tradition is not as strong as in the past, and many practices are completely forgotten, it has to preserve something of its spiritual character if at least a few of those practices are still celebrated (such as pouring wax, shoe competition). Nowadays young people celebrate the traditional meeting together on St Andrew’s Eve. The remains of the belief of a magical power of that night lend a special mysterious character for the parties, with the candles and future telling practices.
Today the traditions provide an excellent reason for entertaining social gatherings. Try to avoid planning to business do on that day, as you will be risking that your potential guests will rather be attending a private party organized by their colleague Andrzej.
The secret book
Let’s pull the wax into the water
We will see what will be